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Dogging Advice For Newbies 1. Before The Meet 2. During 3. After The Meet Dogging is the broad term used to cover all the sexual outdoor activities that go on. So this means everything from watching someone else have sex outside to putting on a show with your significant other in plain view of anyone who wants to watch is called “dogging”. Most commonly dogging refers to having sex at a carpark (Rest Stops), or in the woods. Dogging can either be a planned event or an unplanned event. In the case of the unplanned event you need to have patience as not every park or rest stop will have activity. If there is activity you are not guaranteed to be invited to participate. The following set of advice is geared towards the couple who is setting up a planned dogging event and have never went dogging before. 1. Before The Meet Talk about it - If it's your first time dogging, then you need to talk about what you're looking to get out of it. It's easy to get confused about how far to go. Talk to each other, decide what you're both comfortable doing, the last thing you want is to overstep your partners boundaries. Be prepared - It's helpful if you put together a small bag containing condoms (if the males haven't brought any), wet wipes and deodorant. These are just a few things which will make the meet go easier. A simple card with your swinging names, email address and even your mobile number will come in handy. Advertising - Dogging can be a bit of hit and miss, sometimes you can spend hours at a location and see no action at all. The way round this is to advertise on a dogging board. When you advertise, don't advertise the location you're going to or what time you're going. This will result in a mass of single men waiting for you! All you need to include is the county you wish to meet in and the date of the meet. Then simply ask people to email you about the meet. Once you have the emails, you'll be able to choose who you want, and email them the details of the actual location and time. This should stop you being swamped. 2. During The Meet Safety - Before you arrive, make sure you move your bag / purse / wallet / anything valuable to a safe place like the trunk. Also lock all the doors from the inside, this will stop unwelcome visitors and keep you in control of what goes on. Signals - There's loads of signals that doggers use, the most common are flashing lights, these could be interior or exterior lights. This basically means they're doggers. Leaving the internal light on basically means we want to be watched. If they wind down the window, this means the they want to fondle / be fondled or more. If they want more, they willtell you. Another less obvious sign that has become popular lately is the use of a sticker or picture of a dog placed in the rear window of a car. It appears completely innocent but is a very obvious sign to those who are in the know. 3. After the meet - Safety & Consideration For Others Ending it - A simple thank you to all the males that watched or took part in the fun is all that's needed. everyone will get the idea and say their goodbyes. Cleaning up - A lot of the dogging locations are based around picnic or other public areas. Please make sure that any condoms or used tissues are put in the bin, or taken with you. Please do not litter, leaving used condoms around is a sure way of getting the area closed at night by the local council and isn't very nice for normal users of the area. Keeping in touch - Remember those business cards, well if you find someone you'd like to meet again, you can give them your card to keep in touch if you want to. Leaving - On heading home, make sure you do not take the direct route, go for a drive around for a little while. Just make sure that nobody has followed you home. Talk - After it's done, you'll be high on the feeling, this is a good time to talk about what just happened. What you liked, what you didn't, what you want to do next time. As with all types of swinging, talking is the way to safeguard your relationship, remember that your relationship is far more important than a couple of hours fun. *** The Number one question that new doggers have is whether or not they should invite there friends to join? This is a tough question to answer because it depends on the type of people your friends are and the type of person you are. Sometimes couples will feel more comfortable going alone or doing something with strangers because this allows them to keep their normal life and their not so normal life separate - other people who may already have an open relationship with their friends find dogging as something new and exciting to introduce into their relationship - so the bottom line answer is this: You should do what makes you comfortable - if your not comfortable then don't do it. |
Dogging Signals theres alot of signs, but basically, if you watch someone and pay attention to thier actions you will be able to tell.-quick Flash of headlights, etc...here are some of the more classic signals: -someone who walks around the park then sits in thier car. -Learn to watch peoples eyes. What are they looking at when they look around. watch thier facial expressions. Theres a certain look that people express when they are horny or trying to seduce and would be watchers. -Walk past the vehicle like any normal passer by would, and pay attention to the occupants face when you make eye contact. DO NOT head over to the car, at least not at this point. You need to remember that for most people who participate in dogging they are living out fantasys. You need to play into the fantasy, and at this point in the relationship you are a stranger to the person and for the rest of this fantasy you should remain a stranger. -stuffed animal dog on the dash or in the back window… |
Dogging Sex Positions Exhibitionist couples who are into dogging usually perform inside their cars. Working in a limited space can be challenging. Here’s a guide to some standard and more creative sex positions both in and out of the car. All should rev up your engines, but your mileage may vary. Take car not to break out any windows or bust your shocks. In the CarClassic. Front seat, passenger side, him on top with feet on floorboards, her feet on the dashboard. Recline the seat as far as possible. Straddle. Him in the passenger seat, her on top astride. Backseat Mambo. Missionary across the backseat. Depending on the size of the car the woman may have to spread her legs to the sides and rest on on the floorboards. The man may have to put one leg on the floorboard or put his feet out the open window or door. Back to Front. The woman gets astride the front seats and backs her bum and presses in into the space between the seats. She can brace herself against the seats or the dash. The man is in the back seat and fucks her doggy style. Up and At ‘Em. Woman lays across the back seat with the man on top between her legs. She plants her feet high and wide across the interior wall of the car. He kneels between her legs and pulls her pelvis up toward his. The female can use her legs to pump her pelvis in this position. Alternately, if there is room, she can hook her legs over his shoulders. Learn more dogging sex positions by visiting www.dogging-info.com |