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Filed Under (Etiquette, Newbie Advice, Videos) by Joe on 10-02-2008

Documentary interview with a sexual adventuress - Dogging.

UK Rudeness (real name: emily) is a website owner who lets random members of her website have sex with her so that it can be posted on the website.  No money is ever exchanged, the only rule is that every participant must wear protection - no exceptions.

Uk rudeness enjoys outdoor sex and was dissapointed to find out that a majority of sites listed on the internet as dogging sites were either abandoned or “dolled up”.  This dissapointment led her to create her website.

In this video Uk Rudeness talks about her “dogging” experiences, her videos, and her philosophy.

 <a href="http://youtube.com/watch?v=Kf_5D4nGw2Q">http://youtube.com/watch?v=Kf_5D4nGw2Q</a>



Principles of Outdoor Ethics:

Don’t forget to respect your surrounding so you don’t get caught and so you can go dogging again and again.

·         Plan ahead and prepare

    • Schedule your trip to avoid times of high use.
    • Visit in small groups. Split larger parties into groups of 4-6.  

  ·         Travel and camp on durable surfaces

    • Durable surfaces include established trails and campsites, rock, gravel, dry grasses or snow.
    • Good dogging sites are found, not made. Altering a site is not necessary. 
    • In popular areas:
      • Concentrate use on existing trails and campsites.
      • Walk single file in the middle of the trail, even when wet or muddy.
      • Keep campsites small. Focus activity in areas where vegetation is absent. 
    • In pristine areas:
      • Disperse use to prevent the creation of campsites and trails.

·         Dispose of Waste Properly

    • Pack it in, pack it out.
    • Deposit solid human waste in catholes dug 6 to 8 inches deep at least 200 feet from water, camp, and trails. Cover and disguise the cathole when finished.

·         Leave What You Find

    • Preserve the past: examine, but do not touch, cultural or historic structures and artifacts.
    • Leave rocks, plants and other natural objects as you find them.  
    • Do not build structures, furniture, or dig trenches.

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    • Keep fires small. Only use sticks from the ground that can be broken by hand.

o        Burn all wood and coals to ash, put out campfires completely, then scatter cool ashes.  

·         Respect Wildlife

·         Be Considerate of Other Visitors

    • Respect other visitors and protect the quality of their experience.
    • Let nature’s sounds prevail. Avoid loud voices and noises.

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Filed Under (Etiquette) by Joe on 25-01-2008

Author:  http://www.dogging-central.com/rules.shtml

10 Commandments of Dogging

  1. Thou shalt wear thine rubbers. Thou shalt adorn thine male organs with the finest sheaths of latex for the prevention of sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancy.
     
  2. Thou shalt not fornicate before innocents. Keep thine revelries from the eyes of children and unsuspecting passersby, and refrain from disturbing the peace and attracting attention.
     
  3. Thou shalt not block thine neighbor’s view. Take care thou dost not obscure the sight of thy fellow dogger, and yield the right of way to them who arrived before you.
     
  4. Thou shalt look with thine eyes, not with thine hands, until invited. Layest not thine hands upon a person without their explicit verbal permission.
     
  5. Heed the sanctity of a woman’s right to refuse. What part of “No” dost thou not understand, thou pushy bastard?
     
  6. Honour thy neighbor’s anonymity. Thou shalt not expose, blackmail, or otherwise compromise the privacy of thine fellow doggers.
     
  7. Thou shalt not destroy public property nor trespass upon private property. The country parks, beauty spots, lovers’ lanes and car parks of  the land shall not be desecrated through vandalism or carelessness.
     
  8. Thou shalt covet thy neighbour’s wife. Thou shalt swing and make merry with thine own mate and all other consenting parties.
     
  9. Thou shalt clean up after thine own self. Before thou departest, gather unto thee all of thine used condoms, torn wrappers, discarded tissues and other rubbish, and dispose of them in a bin.
     
  10. Thou shalt drive safely and honor the laws, both while motoring and parking. Thou shalt not engage in reckless behaviour while in a moving vehicle, and thou shall park legally and engage the parking brake when at rest.


Filed Under (Etiquette) by Joe on 11-01-2008


Find below some easy tips on how to behave when at a dogging place:
Dogging is a fun and a social activity. It’s not acceptable to be rude and/or push somebody into sexual action unless he/she wants it. Remember the golden rule “No Means No”.
If you are a watcher make sure a couple wants to be watched. A flash of the interior light and/or a rolled down window may serve as signals of invitation. Sometimes you may be asked to join the action. However you�d better to keep your distance unless the couple invites you.
Remember of a safe sex. Always use condom. Keep yourself clean. It should be a common sense.
If you are a newbie and want to start dogging check our some online communities and dogging sites first. A good idea is to talk with some experienced doggers to learn the ropes. On our site you will find veterans of dogging willing to share their thoughts and tips on how and where to start. Many of our members regularly arrange dogging meetings so it’s a good opportunity for you to get invited.

2003 Sex Act - Section 66 : Exposure

A person commits an offence if -
he intentionally exposes his genitals, and
he intends that someone will see them and be caused alarm or distress.
A person guilty of an offence under this section is liable -
on summary conviction, to imprisonment for a term not exceeding 6 months or a fine not exceeding the statutory maximum or both;
on conviction on indictment, to imprisonment for a term not exceeding 2 years.

Under Section 66, doggers are at risk of the law if it is their intention to cause alarm or distress to members of the public. So, if you take reasonable precautions to make sure that you are well out of public view, you should be fine. Essentially, this means only go dogging at night, away from residential areas and well away from the major carparks where anyone could turn up. If you use the carparks as a general meeting area, then move on to a more discreet location to play, you’re taking steps to ensure no one is offended.



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