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A cuckold is a married man with an adulterous wife. The original meaning is a man who is unwittingly raising another mans child. In current usage it sometimes refers to non-married couples in committed relationships, although this is not the traditional meaning. A man who knows and acquiesced in his wife’s taking of another lover was called a wittol, itself a derivation from the Middle English for “witting (as in knowing) cuckold.” History: Cuckolds have sometimes been written as “wearing the horns of a cuckold” or just “wearing the horns”. This refers to the fact that the man being cuckolded is the last to know of his wife’s infidelity. He is wearing horns that can be seen by everybody but him. Fetish: In most modern cases of cuckolding, the husband usually finds pleasure through that of his wife and they (the wife and extramarital participant) may both enjoy attempting to actively include him in the act of cuckolding as much as possible through serving her. Some common themes include praising her appearance, attempting to stimulate her sexually at the same time as the additional participant, and generally being engrossed in her enjoyment. It is common for the male to be more absorbed with the females pleasure than his own. Cuckolding has grown in recent years to quite a large subculture with many websites and message boards such as cuckolds.co.uk This Article was originally posted at: http://www.dogging-central.com/dogging-list.shtml Dogging Shopping ListGoing dogging requires some preparation. Here are some of our picks for the most important things to bring along: Condoms, condoms, condoms Obviously, if you’re going to play safe, you need condoms. Especially if you’re going to let others join in the fun, it’s an absolute must to have plenty of condoms at-the-ready. You can’t count on people bringing their own. You may want to bring a variety of types and sizes so people can choose the condom most comfortable for them. After all, no telling who will show up, and you need to be ready for anything. You should also bring some latex surgeon’s gloves. If there’s going to be any internal, or even external, touching involved, latex gloves will protect both parties. Dental dams (some people substitute plastic wrap) offer protection during oral play. Lube It Up Plenty of lube is essential to keep your dogging session going like a well-oiled machine. You probably already know that you should use water-based lubes like Astroglide and KY-Jelly, as oil-based lubes can degrade latex condoms. However, you may not realize that lube is available, not just in tubes, but also in single-use packets. Just hand out a little lube packet when you give out the condom, a perfect pair. Now I Lay Me Down It may seem exciting to have sex on the ground, on a picnic table, or on the hood of your car. However, you’ll have a quick bit of harsh reality once you realize just how uncomfortable that can be. Rock on the floor, the hard metal of a car, or splinters on a picnic table can ruin a dogging session. So, come prepared. Bring a blanket to lie on, a pillow to rest your head, and anything else you think you might need for comfort. We’ve heard of some dogging enthusiasts who even bring their own air mattress to the fun. A little thought to physical comfort will go a long way to making it a fun experience. See What’s Going On You should have at least one flashlight at the ready, along with extra batteries, before the fun begins. In terms of safety and simple efficiency, you need to be able to see what’s going on, especially if it’s a dark or secluded area. Clean Up Time Dogging can be a very messy activity. To keep things clean and sanitary, you should have plenty of baby wipes, paper towels, and tissues close at hand. Encourage your newfound friends to wipe before the fun starts, you can even give them a little Purel-style sanitizing gel to disinfect their hands. Environmentally Friendly When your dogging session is done, make sure to leave the location as clean as when you found it. Bring plastic bags, and throw away EVERYTHING, condoms, condom wrappers, baby wipes, etc. Your flashlight will come in handy here too. It’s your responsibility to the dogging community to do this; dogging should be fun for those involved and not a burden on others. Either dispose of the plastic bag in a proper receptacle at the dogging location or take it home and throw it out there. Carping is derived from the activity of dogging. A carper is a person who engages in conversation with another person on a mobile phone (or through online chat) who is in the act of gratifying themselves either publicly or privately. Many of the more experienced doggers (people who put on shows) invite carping by writing their telephone number on a cardboard box or large piece of paper and placing it on display inside their vehicle. Carping is also the definition of one who chats with another while watching them perform live on a web cam. Although the original definition of the word came from the actual physical event, online dogging has adopted the slang for its own use. |